Aries Always thought you have to be ruthless to protect oneself. You believed pushing people away before they could hurt you would keep you secure. As you age, you realize you can't avoid pain. You will encounter it despite your best efforts.
However, certain people are worth risking. Some people are worth the anguish they may cause. No more avoiding nasty feelings, you're becoming soft-hearted. You accept them. You're opening up because you're tired of pretending. You care about them, so admit it.
Scorpio Before, you rarely gave anybody the benefit of the doubt. You assumed they weren't worth your trouble if they hurt you. You thought they were heartless monsters. While you still set limits, you are becoming more empathetic and trying to see things from others' perspectives.
Instead of nursing a grudge, you forgive when it is deserved. You're less quick to condemn others because you know misunderstandings might happen. You realize not everyone is as bad as you thought. The world has more kind people than you thought, including you.
Capricorn You spent most of your life acting like you were content alone, above others, and didn't need anyone else. Now that you're soft-hearted, you're more comfortable showing your affection.
You are self-sufficient but may confess that you prefer living with someone. You can be vulnerable like never before. You appear emotionally maturer than ever.
Aquarius Most of your life has been spent avoiding feelings. You have tried to distract yourself with work, friends, and TV, but you are now slowing down and processing your feelings.
Your soft-heartedness is making you more comfortable acknowledging when you're not okay. More importantly, you are sharing your feelings and experiences with people and exposing your heart more than ever. You are now accepting your vulnerability instead of suppressing your emotions until you explode.